In the dictionary, you'll find two definitions to explain what it means to forge something. "To make or shape a metal object by heating it in a fire or furnace and beating or hammering." Also, "To create a relationship or new conditions. When I think about what it means to "forge ahead," I have been doing it all along without realizing.

 During the entirety of my teens and young adult life, I've struggled with my health. I suffered with constant pain, fatigue, menstrual issues, gastrointestinal distress, and more. I visited dozens of doctors and specialists, countless ER trips and endured endless testing that led to no diagnosis. I couldn't work, go to school, or function for that matter. I lived my life in bed while some people questioned the legitimacy of my illness. I was barely hanging on. Finally, March 2021 I finally received my diagnosis. ENDOMETRIOSIS. After more than a decade, the mystery illness had a name, I was not crazy. It was not in my head. Instant vindication! Two major surgeries have helped me immensely but I have a long road ahead still. I struggle knowing I have lost time to make up. What now? Who am I? The self doubt creeps in, the questions become too big. Then I remember there's a plan for me and all I need to do is keep my faith, stay strong and keep forging ahead. 

We can all relate to the beating and hammering life doles out when we're in its furnace. However, we do come out stronger, and the way we overcome our hardships can become fuel for others. Whether you're suffering physically, struggling to get a diagnosis, or trying to own the body you've been given, we can all look to each other for help and encouragement. When we forge relationships and new conditions, we are stronger, together!



-Debbie